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I wish someone had told me these things before I became a PDA parent. It would have saved so much guilt — the endless second-guessing, the “why isn’t this working?” moments, and the fear that I was doing it wrong. Parenting a PDA child means learning a whole new language — one that prioritises safety, trust, and collaboration over compliance. It means understanding that behaviour is communication, not defiance. And most importantly, it means unlearning everything we were told “good parenting” sh